tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-365009436328014940.post6165759459487921068..comments2023-04-14T07:11:08.350-07:00Comments on Marginally a Mother: Taking inventoryUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-365009436328014940.post-61599129980831849032011-08-15T09:19:32.576-07:002011-08-15T09:19:32.576-07:00Yes, it is much more healthy to let it hurt and to...Yes, it is much more healthy to let it hurt and to deal with it as it surfaces instead of trying to re-bury it. Unfortunately because you tend to bury your emotions (I have in the past, so I know EXACTLY what you're dealing with), they WILL come up at some point and hurt even more than when they went "down" in the first place. That could be why you're dealing with physical issues like headaches too. I don't know. It's just a thought. Anyway...hang in there, and I hope you know you can text me anytime you need to talk. Love you girl. *hugs*Monikahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09598390010327967653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-365009436328014940.post-20716333754621380992011-08-14T23:44:14.593-07:002011-08-14T23:44:14.593-07:00Ooh, hang in there. I'm sending you strong tho...Ooh, hang in there. I'm sending you strong thoughts and thinking of you. I have a very good friend (a guy) who had a daughter a month after I had mine. He is raising his daughter with his now-wife (prior to the pregnancy they were broken up). I am thrilled for him and happy, and we keep in touch a lot, but seeing pictures of his daughter and hearing about her milestones and how happy he makes her breaks my heart. My daughter and his are so close in age. I'm trying to be supportive and remain interested and involved (we are not romantic or anything he's just a close friend and needs people for support) but it kills me sometimes to see pictures or hear of her developments or whatnot, because they are in the same stages as my daughter's. I get updates and pictures of my daughter of course, but it's very hard to have another reminder of her no matter how much I know that my friend's daughter and his life are completely different than mine. It sounds like Phil is a good guy and I'm really proud that you are opening up to him and trying to work through it. When I run into issues I often pull away and shut everyone out and it's a lonely place to be. Hang in there.A Life Being Livedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11702473000464603292noreply@blogger.com