tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-365009436328014940.post5628142884856484276..comments2023-04-14T07:11:08.350-07:00Comments on Marginally a Mother: I am tryingUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-365009436328014940.post-16970662653275464592011-03-23T17:20:58.647-07:002011-03-23T17:20:58.647-07:00Wasn't actually anyone you know! J -- I am slo...Wasn't actually anyone you know! J -- I am slowly cutting him out, but you know the reasons for that (other than the obvious!)Debbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17370999631151551820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-365009436328014940.post-62377294559236805832011-03-21T09:44:41.632-07:002011-03-21T09:44:41.632-07:00Yes, being a birthmom is hard. I'm actually b...Yes, being a birthmom is hard. I'm actually blogging about the reasons I don't like the idea of contact agreements being legally enforceable this week on BirthmomBuds (if I can get it how I want it). He shouldn't have said that to you just to placate you, which you know is why he said that (and if it's who I think it is, it might be a good idea to cut him out anyway, but that's a different subject). You ARE strong, but that's beside the point. It doesn't make what you think you might be facing any easier. It doesn't make the impending move easier. It doesn't make the possibility that you could be cut out of your B's life easier - in fact, it might make it harder (thinking that you're strong and can "deal with it."). I wish I had something to say here that could make it all better, but you know I don't. Just know I'm here for you and I'm praying and hoping for the best outcome possible. Love you girl.Monikahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09598390010327967653noreply@blogger.com